Our guest blogger and good friend Matt Ritchie has a word on solitude and community. One of the neat things about this particular post is its relevance. He shared with me that he has witnessed just recently how these simple thoughts have had a profound impact in the life of someone he shared them with. Don’t take lightly the simple things, for often they are the most important. — trey
” 32They went to a place called Gethsemane, and Jesus said to his disciples, “Sit here while I pray.”
Mark14:32
Matt Ritchie, Running with the Lion
In order to maintain a spiritually balanced life, we need at least two things: solitude and community. Solitude occurs when we are still and quiet, ready to listen to God. Community occurs when our true selves are known and loved by others, and where we come to know and love others as they truly are. Both experiences – solitude and community – are places where we encounter God. In solitude, we are given an opportunity to examine our lives and reflect on how God is at work in them. In community, we see God reflected in others and hear his voice through the words of those who follow him.
Without both solitude and community, our lives lose purpose and accountability. We become blown around by whatever events happen to be occurring at the moment, and we grow confused, anxious, even depressed.
In our culture, it is difficult to experience either solitude or community. Even when no one else is around, it is difficult to find true solitude. Television, radio, email, and cell phones constantly invade our consciousness, allowing us to avoid the silence in which deep reflection on our lives becomes possible. And even when we are around people, our relationships are often superficial. Our conversations tend to focus on “safe” subjects – topics that don’t put us at risk of rejection – rather than the things that really matter to us.
Today, make a decision to live for a short time in both solitude and community. Take ten minutes to turn off the cell phone and to step away from the email; use that opportunity to have a time of silence in God’s presence. Then, when you are done, take ten minutes to be in community with someone. Tell a friend about a spiritual or personal issue that is really important to you at the moment, and invite them to share one with you. You don’t have to “solve” each other’s problems – just spend some time sharing and hearing about things that really matter to each of you.
Prayer: God, I’m here to meet with you, come and meet with me. I’m here to find you, reveal yourself to me. Amen.
(From Ten Shekel Shirt, Meet with Me)